Saturday, 7 February 2009

Thoughts on weekends...

You know how the weekend just sometimes flies past you. One moment it's Friday, the next it's Sunday night and you have no recollection of what you did. So I decided last Friday that I need to DO things on weekends. I am going to try to:
1. Do something for my hubby
2. Something for each of the kids
3. Something for the puppies
4. Something for someone outside of my direct family that shares my home
5. Something for the house
6. And something for myself.
Sometimes these will overlap or combine, but it is just a conscious effort to make more of the weekend. Get out of the lazy rut of just sitting around and DO things.

So, let's see how we did last weekend:
1. Do something for my hubby
He scored big-time - I gave him the whole Saturday to do some shopping for himself and spend the afternoon at the airport with his brother before he flew back to Dubai.
I also bought him a plane ticket to attend his uncle and godfather's funeral.
2. Something for each of the kids
I did a combined one for all 3 - A and I made playdough (which she enjoyed tremendously) and I took all 3 out to play with it on the patio. Due to the rain the garden is very wet and the kids crave to be outside.

She had pink playdough with purple glitter inside.

So you make holes like this!

And you press cookie cutters like this.

We all had juice and biscuits outside.

And soon the clouds came again an another storm broke loose.
3. Something for the puppies
As soon as the rain took a small break on Sunday I convinced dad that we could put the rain cover on the stroller and take them to the park. We all enjoyed it although we had to take cover in the gazebo for about 15 minutes.
4. Something for someone outside of my direct family that shares my home
I used my precious few minutes available away from the kids to shop for a stork tea for cousin Surene.
5. Something for the house
I re-packed and cleaned the one grocery cupboard (yeah, baby steps girl, baby steps!)
6. And something for myself.
This will most often be the tough one. But this weekend is easy! I got myself some Skype (long overdue) and chatted for over an hour with my friend Nanna in Calgary, Canada - we have not seen each other in 3 years! I really lifted my spirit.

So now I have to plan for this weekend - today we will do the Waggie ride for Tuesday - that will cover no 4. As fellow moms I know you do most of these automatically, the real question is - what are you going to do for yourself? Why don't you tell me?

Friday, 6 February 2009

Phriday Photo Phinish Phiesta

My photo for this week is a self portrait I took in the office on Wednesday for my facebook profile photo. It is meant to show a friendly hug. Not sure if it does though?

Pop over to Carrie's to see who else is playing along. And do not forget to read my post below please. Lots of news and milestones. And yes, we have sunny and clear skies today.

16 Months already!

The Boys had their 16 month check-up at the nursing sister on Wednesday. I am glad to report that all is going well. Little man L had his shots, but Little man C will wait until next week to recuperate from the croup episode. She is happy with their progress - their language skills are on track (even slightly ahead) and some of their other skills like building and comprehension are both ahead of target. We are behind on naming body parts (I have sort of forgotten about that) and drawing as they are mostly still chewing the crayons. We will work on those.

We are solidly on sippy cups and straw bottles. Have been actually, since The Boys were 13 months - I just forgot to blog about it because it came so easily. I just gradually substituted each bottle with a sippy cup, and once again (like with their sister), it worked like a charm. No tears! We are working on the pacifiers but I am in no rush to get rid of them.

We have just started with placing them at the big kid table to eat and it works some times. Other times, no sitting still and then it is back to the high chairs. They also like to sit on their plastic chairs and watch some Baby Einstein - for about 5 minutes, and then they are up and about again.

They now prefer finger foods and hate being fed, apart from yogurt which they adore. They are also starting to spoon feed themselves with items such as mash or gem squash. The mess is less than I expected, but maybe my standards are just falling ;-)

We are in the process of moving from two naps to one in the early afternoon. In general they are both sleeping through about 95% of the time. This week has been rough with the croup but last night was a sleep through for all in the house.

We have noticed that they are starting to "know their colours" - we colour-coded them from birth - L with blue (or yellow) and C with green (or red). They will take their own sippy cup or soft toy bunny for instance - the only difference being blue or green.

Little man C:
Weight: 10,43 kg ( 23 pounds) 40th percentile
Length: 80 cm (31,5 inch) 50th percentile

He is not walking any more - he is running! Walking is way to slow! He does from time to time engage in a crawling game of tag with his brother to great entertainment of all in the house.

He has 15 words including things like "vissie"(fish), "teddie" (teddy), "padda" (frog). He is also starting to string words together - like "kyk daar" (look there). He can point out items that he knows on a page filled with different pictures - for instance, he can pick the ball out of a page with pictures of toys.

He is climbing the stairs (under supervision) and is busy learning to climb down. He is starting to enjoy the rocking horse if we help him to get up.

His favourite toy at the moment is a ball - he is besotted with balls of any shape and form. He and his sister have devised a game we call table ball where they roll a ball underneath a chair on a table.

He is building huge towers with the wooden blocks - up to 12 or 13 blocks.

And he loves to climb on the big couch and sit back and relax. We constantly have to tell him to sit and not walk around on the couch.

He had finally overcome his fear of the dogs - this has been a huge issue for us as we love the dogs and we have slowly but constantly worked towards him getting more relaxed around them. Now he and puppy B are big buddies!

We loves the wagons that grandfather made them for Christmas and loves getting into it and packing all and sunder in it.

We call him "Klein Schalk" (Little Schalk) when he wakes up in the morning - huge frown and hair in all directions. Schalk refers to Schalk Burger, a South African rugby player known for agressive play, long blonde hair and a semi-permanent frown. Other nicknames: Chris-jan , Chris-chris, Beertjiie (Little bear) and blonde bom (the blond bomb). He tends to be moody at times and will moan and bicker until he gets what he wants. But he just loves to hug, cuddle and kiss. And yes, you've guessed it - his name is Chris*tian! We hope that one day he will fulfill the meaning of his name - to be a follower of Christ.

Little man L:
Weight: 9,45 kg ( 20,8 pounds) 5th percentile
Length: 80 cm (31,5 inch) 50th percentile

We are not worried about his weight any more as he is constantly staying on the curve and as the neurologist predicted this. He is now standing on his own only occasionally, but walks around objects and corners while holding on to the table etc. He is also walking with his wagon or while holding your one hand.


He has about 13 words (most the same as his brother) and loves to call his "boeta" (brother) or Anne (Yes, The Little Miss' name is Anne*cke). He is doing something that the nursing sister says is exceptional - on Saturday I was busy with C pointing out objects on a page when he crawled to another book, paged through it and found the object that I was Asking C to point out. She says that this is a 2 year plus skill as he not only paged to find something but also remembered that the item was in the book. Just to make sure, we asked him on Sunday to find something else and once again, he paged through to find it.

Although he can not walk he loves climbing, sometimes nearly giving his mom a heart attack. He climbs the stairs, the couch and back of the couch, the slide, whatever. Scary stuff. The child knows no fear.

He is building different arrangements with Mega blocks and likes them much more than the wooden blocks. He loves toys cars, trains etc. And he loves to scribble - more on his sister's scribble pad than with crayons which he still chews mostly.

And he loves the pop-up animals - he is managing to turn the two turn knobs for the animals to come out. Now he has to master the slide and push button.

And amazingly he is the first to master fully riding on their ride-on fire trucks.

We call him Klein Leeutjie (Little lion), Sir Richard (the lionheart) because he is such a brave little boy, the Professor and Apie ( Monkey) - for obvious reasons. He is such a sweet little boy that hardly cries and can entertain himself for hours. He is already a very independent little soul. He is slowly getting used to his glasses. And yes, his name is Le*on - that literally means Lion-like. What an apt name for such a brave little boy.

Thursday, 5 February 2009

Tutu giveaway.


After the last giveaway I won that could not be shipped to South Africa, I have been bluntly ignoring all these. But I could not stop myself from commenting on Jennifersusan's gorgeous tutus. After she went to all the trouble of commenting on my blog that I am still free to enter, I am excited. So girls, head over to her blog and enter. Maybe you (or I) will win one of these!

And they say it is not the end of the rain yet!

Some of you guy's comments yesterday about the rain had me in stitches! Yeah, I guess we could do with an ark or two Karen, and yes, I won't mind the snow right now Kari. It is going to be a comfortable 26 degrees C (77 F) with more heavy rain expected. It has been over a week now and the water has nowhere to go to. The ground is soggy and saturated. But we are all fine thanks, even the office. It's just the roads - have a look at some of these pictures:

No, that is not my van - although it is the same colour and model.

And this was taken in our neighbourhood.

Wednesday, 4 February 2009

We have a flood warning!

Gosh guys, a flood warning has been issued for our city. Best I get home asap and stay there as our home is located nice and high. The office is not.

Way back WHEN sday


Timeline: 2 February 2008
Age of The Boys: 4 months

We have been experiencing huge amounts of heavy rain over the last week. And temperatures have dropped slightly to give some much appreciated cooler weather after the extreme heat of two weeks ago. It is wreaking havoc though resulting in colds, tummy bugs and yes, croup. But just in case we think it is unseasonal, this photograph was a year ago and it was cool enough to dress the babies in long sleeves! Look how they still napped in one camping cot during daytime! My, but they have grown!

Pop over to Cheryl's at Twinfatuation to share some precious memories.

Talking of memories, we have all been touched by little Tuesday's death and as we are so far away and our currency is worth nothing in the USA, our prayers are the best we can offer.Now, there is one more thing we can do to honor her memory: we have decided to join in the virtual parade for Tuesday on Saturday in some form or another. Please pop over to Life, liberty and the pursuit...(click on this button), and join in too.

Tuesday, 3 February 2009

Our first run-in with the bugger called Croup

Yes, you've read correctly! Little man C has croup. Had him at the doctor yesterday and yes, he is coughing his lungs out. I saw our regular paediatricians partner and he also thinks he might have the beginnings of asthma. So we will be doing asthma meds for another month and the re-evaluate. Little man L is fine - apart that he sees his brother's coughing as an excuse not to sleep. And you will know that sleep is a much sought after item in the household at present - H is away to Port Elizabeth for his uncle (and godfather's) funeral - so it has been super tough on me. I am even missing bookclub tonight - bugger!

Two for Twosday



Story time with gran, a delight for all - especially mommy who is taking a nap on the couch. My mom is a great story reader with voices, noises etc. The Little Miss got loads of books for her birthday - to mommy's delight (and hers).

Pop over to Deanna's for more twosome. twofers etc every Tuesday and play along, won't you?

Sunday, 1 February 2009

The big 4th birthday - part 2

So this morning I have 3 kids with a cold. And Little man L actually seems the least affected. Little man C had a terribe cough last night.

So, lets continue to catch up What you say, only part 2 now of the birthday post! Well she had a little celebration at school. This year, we have been asked to provide undecorated cupcakes with some icing already prepared and decorations like sprinkles or sweets. We can also take some party packs with sweets. The Little Miss' was the first birthday at the school for the year so everybody was totally taken with the cupcakes and decorating their own.

Waiting to sing "Happy Birthday" in order to start decorating and eating.

Just blown out her candles - all 4 at once!

With teacher Kirsty, her teacher for the year.

The real fun part - every cupcake looked different.

Enjoying her party pack with best friend at school, Alexa.
The final part, her actual party to follow soon.